We all have someone we want to be, a person that defines us, who we are, and we want recognition for it. What greater experience to feel than to know being yourself is being praised by others, instead of moulding yourself into whoever your near.
One day, someone will see you for who you are, don't loose out.
Personal manifistation is great! Finding yourself, being yourself and knowing people that about you means you won't be surrounded by fakers, if you wanna be a shallow git, then you'll attract shallow gits.